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Today's The Hindu had a great Op-Ed article about a retiree who spent a few months in the US with his son and found that country to be 'dull, lifeless and robotic'. The article proceeds to do a line by line comparison between India and the US, extolling the virtues of India and her spiritual, gregarious society. Despite the corny ending with the line 'Mera Bharat Mahaan', the article was a clear winner for the place of a lazy Sunday afternoon read.
Secondly, I think that the point of view of the article is a severely biased one. It was from the POV of a septuagenarian living in the conservative, traditional city of Chennai. Being no stranger to Chennaite septuagenarians myself, I can frankly say that that demographic do not adapt well. They come from very orthodox backgrounds and their comfort space is heavily defined by their surroundings. They are yet to come to grips with even basic technologies, so expecting them to be unbiased commentators on the American lifestyle is unfair and flawed.
Lastly i would like to make it clear that I love India for its vibrancy. I have gone abroad on a few occasions and have spent a significant amount of time abroad but i am sure that i will never be able to live abroad for long stretches. I am hard wired Indian. (Chennaite in particular) But even then i recognize that India needs to change. it needs to embrace the best of western cities and societies if it is to proceed on this track of growth. Issues such as open sewers must become the center of attention and not remain by the bys. Clapping ourselves on our backs for having vibrant society and disregarding the chronic ills of our country is myopic and potentially disastrous. While it is good to see the glass as half full, sometimes we must look at the empty half for the sake of future generations.
Western societies have, on occasions, given up traditions for the sake of modernization. But having endured for 10000 years, Indian traditions will put up a harder fight. The challenge, the unique challenge in fact, that India faces is rapidly embracing modernity while holding on to its vibrant traditionalism. That is not a bad challenge to face, if you ask me.
I miss home desperately. But I have to say it is better to be an American in America than an Indian in India. In fact, if you have enough money, the only thing that an Indian misses in India are family and friends, which is not exactly missing the country.
ReplyDeleteI made a blunder of signing a contract accidentally which made me liable for $530. It was waived off when I explained the situation. Back in college, Karthik was made to pay 2000 rupees as fine for a book he hadn't seen in his life, with no evidence whatsoever.
A policeman addresses me as 'sir'.
I submitted my completed assignment three weeks after the deadline and explained i didn't know the late homework policy. I wad excused. Back in India, Malmathan gave me a B grade because I didn't use the exact words as in Sedra and Smith.
American culture is based on RESPECT. Indian culture is based on tradition.
One thing for which I am proud of for being from India is secularism.
Some Christian spent 10 minutes explaining about Jesus ("Have you heard of Jesus?"). Just to be polite i kept listening. Then I asked him if he had heard of the Gita. I told him all the religions teach the same thing. He was genuinely shocked. Wonder what he thought other religions were about. Anyway that was the first time I felt proud to be an Indian, because I don't think any other country will give you the opportunity to know about other religions.